10 Steps To Get You Ready For Your Soul Mate

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10 Steps To Get You Ready For Your Soul Mate



10 Steps to Make You Ready for Your Soul Mate

    1. Pray. Ask others to pray with you and for you. Are you asking God to bring you a man or a better man but not truly believing (by your actions and self talk) that you are worthy of the best, most gentle, loving and caring man? Are you praying for your soul mate but not asking God to open your heart, mind and eyes to the lies you are currently believing and accepting? Are you not asking God to change you, mold you and prepare you for your future husband? If not, it is time to start.
    2. Stop having premarital sex. It does not matter if you are currently in a relationship. Stop and wait until you’re married. If he leaves you because of this, then you will know without a doubt that this person is not “the one”. It doesn’t matter if you have a child with this man, you have been dating him for 10 years, your relationship is new or you share a home with him.  This type of sin slowly chips away at your soul, self-worth and separates you from the relationship you were meant to have with God. You should be insulted as a beautiful and worthy woman of God, if he feels it is important to sample you before marrying you.   By not waiting, you are the one in control of your life and you are choosing your own path. When you choose your own path over the one God has for you, you are missing out on opportunities to meet your soul mate.
    3. If you feel your worth is defined by having a man in your life and having that man stay in your life depends on you giving him your precious body then you need to spend much more alone time with God and His word. Understand these are Satan’s lies you are believing to be true about yourself. These are lies.
    4. Understand this is really NOT the intimacy and connection you desire and crave. Satan tells us it is readily available to us through sex. This is a huge lie designed to separate us from our Creator, think less of our selves and destroy our self-worth. See the lie for what it’s worth and turn yourself towards Gods truth.
    5. Know that sex does not equal love. Love is not full of lies, cheating eyes, nor cheating bodies. Love is not belittling and degrading comments or gestures. Love is not a strong abusive hand or voice. If you have believed this lie to be true know that you are worth so much more. Read what the bible says love is (1 Corinthians 13:4-7).
    6. Get involved in helping others. Get involved at church, start a singles small group. Take up a hobby. Get yourself healthy – emotionally, spiritually and physically.
    7. Love yourself through God’s eyes. Believe His truths, speak His truths over and over in your head.  Speak them out loud.  Wrap yourself in the full armor of God and take captive every negative and sinful thought. Believe that you are worth waiting for and your future husband is worth waiting for. Prepare now for future temptation.
    8. Realize that you can not pick and choose which parts of God’s word you choose to believe. There are many sins which are the result of following with your flesh and not with your faith. Sex before marriage is one of those. Control your thoughts and your flesh will follow.
    9. You may feel alone but if you really dig deep into God’s word you will see that you are not alone. You are beautiful, precious and very much-loved. You are worthy and valuable. So much so that saving yourself for marriage…for your future…would be the ultimate gift to give to him. When you choose your path over the one God has for you, you are missing out on opportunities to meet your soul mate.
    10. Be patient. While it may feel that God is making you wait forever, He is still preparing you. Remember He could still be at work in your future husband too.  Even though you may be ready in God’s eyes, your soul mate is not ready yet. Be still while He readies him for you. Maybe your future husband is just as stubborn as you once were! Be patient and have faith.


p>Would you mind sharing this with others via Facebook and Twitter?  You are much appreciated!  I would love to hear from you!  What are your thoughts on this subject?  Is there anything you would add to the list or anything you disagree with?

2 thoughts on “10 Steps To Get You Ready For Your Soul Mate

  1. I love that last bit, it really made me think. “Remember he could still be at work in your future husband/wife too.” The whole fact of the matter is that I learned how to mature and grow up fast almost too fast but I know what I want and where I would like to head. So it certainly is possible that maybe I am on a great path towards a real relationship based on Christ BUT my future spouse is not ready yet. I love the perspective change on that. Thank you and God bless! 23 and a virgin and remembering why I turned down sex numerous times for God alone. Cause he always is looking out for us, always. And that wedding night I can look her in the eyes and say, “I love you so much that I saved myself just for you alone.” =)


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